There are black bow ties, then there are raw silk black bow ties, which clearly posses greater depth. It's fine to conform, but why not do so with edge. Our French Knots were originally made to wear against the skin, but have been known to be worn under a collar or around the wrist - we say wear it however you like!
Made in Canada by people you'd like
Self-tie bow tie, requiring a simple 2-step knot
Custom made boxes with instructions
If you have any questions about sizes, just ask :)